Best Dating Apps for 2023
If you’re single in 2023, you’re no stranger to online dating. It’s become embedded in our dating culture, and the latest data speaks for itself. According to Pew Research Center, 54% of Americans claim that relationships which start online are just as successful as those that start in person. And it can be challenging to pick the best dating app for you.
New dating apps are popping up left and right, which can be overwhelming to sort through. Singles are left asking themselves, “What are the best dating apps for 2023?”
Let’s face it: every app has a reputation. If you’re seeking a serious relationship, you aren’t going to dive into the Tinder pool and if you’re looking for a casual hookup, you aren’t mingling with the Match.com crowd.
That being said, times are changing and so are the apps. Believe it or not, there are people who met their husbands and wives on Tinder. So, the moral of the story is to focus on the facts and keep an open mind when it comes to dating apps.
To separate fact from fiction, I’ve researched and compiled a list of the most popular apps based on your dating goals and everything you need to know about each one:
- Hinge
If you’re looking for a serious relationship, you’ll want to download Hinge. Branding itself as the app “that’s designed to be deleted,” it is intended for relationship seekers.
How it works: Similar to Tinder, you’re presented with a list of users that match your age, gender and location preferences. While there is a swiping component, users are notified when their photos or prompt responses are “liked.” If you both like each other, you’re matched and can exchange messages.
Unlike Tinder which gives you endless options, Hinge sends a select list. Its matching algorithm is based on people you share Facebook friends with. Once that runs out, the app will recommend friends of friends. The main goal is to provide you with people who run in similar circles. So, while the volume is lower, it’s more catered to you and what you’re looking for.
It also has prompts to showcase your personality. So rather than having to craft a bio, you can come up with responses to convey your interests, dealbreakers, and more.
- Tinder
Regardless of its reputation, Tinder makes the list for its ability to help you cast a wide net. If you’re open-minded and want a ton of options to choose from, Tinder is your best bet. People love Tinder because it’s easy to use and great for making different types of connections.
Since it is the most popular dating app today with the highest number of users, you will get a mix of personalities and people from all kinds of backgrounds with different dating goals.
So, whether you are looking for love or a casual hookup, there are people on Tinder who have the same objective. Just keep in mind it may take a little longer to sort through!
How it works: The first step is to verify your identity through Facebook. As soon as Tinder and Facebook are linked, Tinder grabs your images and information, auto-filling your profile.
More recently, you can also sign up using your Instagram account, which will pull photos and personal details similar to Facebook.
Tinder is a location-based app, and uses GPS to find matches nearby. One of the app’s newest features is “Smart Profiles,” which highlights relevant information in someone’s profile. For example, it will show if you have the same interests or went to the same school.
- Match
This app is ideal for older singles who are looking for a relationship. As one of the veteran dating apps, it has stood the test of time. It’s simple to sign up and has a reliable matching algorithm. Unlike most of the dating apps on this list, it offers in-person meetups.
How it works: If you want to dip your toe in the water, you can start using Match for free and interact with users through winking, liking and favoriting. However, only paid subscribers have access to the messaging feature and can see who has viewed their profiles. As a paid member, you get matches sent to your inbox daily. By indicating who you’re interested in, Match will make adjustments to increase your chances of compatibility with future matches.
The bottom line: It’s worth the investment if you’re in an area where there are many members and meetups.
- Bumble
All the single ladies, put your hands up! Bumble was designed with women in mind. On this app, females make the first move. This is great because it takes away the pressure of who messages first. It’s up to the women to get the ball rolling. In other words, you are guaranteed to match with people who are more serious about making a connection. For all of these reasons, Bumble is one of the best dating apps of 2023.
How it works: It’s designed similar to most dating apps with a swipe feature.
Once you match, women have 24 hours to message the men. Then, the men have 24 hours to respond. If the clock runs out, the match expires. This setup also ensures women aren’t bombarded with a ton of messages to sort through.
- OkCupid
If you’re looking for a dating app that’s middle of the road (more than a hookup and not immediately pressured into marriage), OkCupid is an excellent choice.
How it works: It’s very easy to set up and has some out-of-the-box questions to help you create your profile. The farther you go, the more personal the questions become – which increases the likelihood of finding an authentic connection.
OkCupid has a sophisticated algorithm to provide you with your most compatible matches. Compatibility is based on general preferences (age, gender, location), dating intention (casual, dating, serious), interests and lifestyle.
When you see a person’s profile you also see their match percentage. So, if you see someone that’s 30% you probably don’t have too much in common, but when you see 90% chances are the two of you will hit it off.
- Zoosk
This is another app that’s a good middle ground for people who are looking for more than a casual fling but aren’t in a rush to walk down the aisle.
With over 35 million users, Zoosk continues to grow in popularity around the world. What sets this app apart is its identity verification process. Zoosk verifies users profile pictures with a video to prove people are who they claim to be. No need to worry about catfishing!
How it works: This app’s algorithm uses unique matching methods by monitoring the user’s behavior through Using Behavioral Matchmaking™ and SmartPick™ technologies. While it’s free to sign up, you’ll need to pay to boost your profile or send messages. Also, there are Zoosk coins. You have the option to flirt with other users by sending digital roses, chocolates, teddy bears, and more.
- Coffee Meets Bagel
If you’re looking for a commitment, one of the best dating apps for 2023 is Coffee Meets Bagel.
How it works: Unlike other apps that are overcrowded and overwhelming, this app sends you one match daily that meets your criteria. You’re probably thinking, “with one match each day, it must take forever.” No, and here’s why: Since you have less profiles to look through, you will take your time. There will be less superficial scrolling and more analyzing common values, beliefs and relationship goals.
This way of matching also decreases the likelihood of dating burnout. More matches mean more messages, more decision-making and let’s face it: too many options can cause analysis paralysis.
Now that we’ve covered the best dating apps for 2023, you can decide the one that’s best for you. Whether you’re ready to settle down or just looking to have fun, online dating has something for everyone.
As you embark on this journey, remember that a positive attitude will lead to a positive outcome. Rather than looking at dating as a frustrating full-time job (we’ve all been there!), see it as a new chapter filled with possibilities. It’s an opportunity to meet new people and have new experiences.
And don’t discount making connections in real-life. In today’s digital age, people are craving that type of social connection. So, don’t be afraid to put yourself out there!
If you can’t find the time to date and you’re tired of the apps, look at my Phoenix Matchmaking Services.
I’d be happy to work with you and help you find the fulfilling relationship you’ve been seeking.
Joann Cohen
Matchmaker /Your Dating Service
