If you’re like many of the successful singles I meet, it’s challenging for you. Finding time to find love. Between your career, family, friends, exercise, and simply living life, you have no spare time for a relationship!
I’m happy to tell you that finding time to find love doesn’t have to be that difficult. I know you may not believe me, but it’s true! I have a secret formula that’s simple, easy, and best of all, FREE. What is this solution? My number one tip for busy singles wishing they had time to find love is a question: Where are you around people?
Look at your schedule and review the places you encounter other people while you’re doing everyday tasks. Too often, we miss daily opportunities because we are too focused on accomplishing our tasks as fast as possible. This means not even noticing the cute guy at the coffee shop watching to see if you look his way. It means missing the big smile from the gorgeous woman behind you in line at the grocery store who’s hoping you’ll notice her and ask her out.
These might seem like unlikely places to find love, but if there’s anything I’ve learned as the Phoenix Dating Coach, it is that love seems to happen most often in the least likely circumstances. I can see you mentally shaking your head at me, thinking that those sorts of things never happen to you because there aren’t any singles in your neighborhood, at your grocery store, or buying coffee in the morning.
Finding time to find love starts by looking. I’d like to suggest that perhaps those single people are around you, you just haven’t noticed them yet because you weren’t on the lookout. I think you’d be amazed at how many more handsome men and gorgeous ladies you’ll encounter in your day-to-day routine if you start looking for them!
Finding Time to Find Love
During a recent Flirting Workshop, a young woman attended who hadn’t dated in a few years. I spoke about this principle of finding time to find love by looking in everyday places, and she was convinced there was no way it was that simple! I challenged her to give it a try. She figured she had nothing to lose, and soon afterward met a single man at her local grocery store and they went on a date soon afterwards.
Finding time to find love is as simple as keeping your eyes open and looking for those everyday opportunities. Remember to pause and look around you. Who’s near? Who’s looking at you? Who do you notice? Once you open yourself up to finding time to find love, you’ll be amazed at how quickly you start meeting people!
From the heart,
Joann Cohen
Phoenix Matchmaker for Phoenix singles,
Scottsdale singles, and singles throughout the Phoenix area
P.S. Now that you’ve started noticing people, the next step is learning how to flirt!
Joann Cohen,
Phoenix Dating Coach
